IF YOU DREAD IT, DEAD IT

IF YOU DREAD IT, DEAD IT Whether you are in a relationship that’s not going anywhere that you’ve dragged on for way too long… weight that you need to lose that you keep pushing back… a dead end job that you “dread” but keeping going back to week after week… or maybe you keep going […]

I DREADED IT, SO I DEAD IT – THE MOVE!

I DREADED IT, SO I DEAD IT – THE MOVE! For a while I contemplated moving back to Florida. After all it was my place of birth and it housed some of my best and worst childhood memories. However, every time I tried to come back something would happen to stop me from doing so. […]

I DREADED IT, I DEAD IT – THE RELATIONSHIPS

I DREADED IT, I DEAD IT – THE RELATIONSHIPS I’m sure I’m not the only person that has DREADED a relationship. After all we spend our whole lives looking for “the one” and while many are able to uphold their standards of waiting for “Mr .Right” many are settling for ” Mr. Right-Now.” Let’s face […]

I DON’T WANT LOVE IF.. IT DOESN’T FEEL LIKE OLD SCHOOL REGGAE

I DON’T WANT LOVE IF.. IT DOESN’T FEEL LIKE OLD SCHOOL REGGAE If I could recall any childhood memories of love it would be those Beres Hammonds songs that my mom would play all through the house singing while she cooked dinner or while she cleaned on the weekends…   “Remember the songs Used to […]

MY LOVE IS TOO MAGICAL TO HAVE THROWN BACK IN MY FACE

MY LOVE IS TOO MAGICAL TO HAVE THROWN BACK IN MY FACE With Valentine’s Day on the way, many people tend to settle for the next “Joe Blow” just to go on Instagram or Facebook and flex, or send pics in group chat of what the “Mr.” did. Now I know you are probably thinking, […]

YOU CAN’T POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP SUS

YOU CAN’T POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP SIS I know I know I haven’t posted a blog in awhile. Truth be told I thought I could do it all – doctorate program, full-time job, church ministries, maintain friendships, BLOG, and maintain my romantic relationship. Turns out I’m not superwoman lol. I started off handling everything […]

SPEAK IT UNTIL YOU SEE IT

SPEAK IT UNTIL YOU SEE IT Many people tend to ask me, “what’s your secret? You always seem to get what you want.” Truth is there is no secret. I just truly believe there is life and death in the power of the tongue! I could remember back around 2007 when I discovered the book […]

WHAT’S FOR YOU, WILL NEVER MISS YOU

WHAT’S FOR YOU, WILL NEVER MISS YOU This quote is one I believe with all my heart and the quote I tell my friends when they are facing disappointment. Often times we want something so bad that when it doesn’t happen we become disappointed, frustrated, and put up a wall. But what I know to […]

THEY SHALL KNOW YOU BY YOUR FRUITS

THEY SHALL KNOW YOU BY YOUR FRUITS So I’m back after my mini hiatus. Sorry, I couldn’t bless y’all with a post earlier. The way how my last semester of my doctorate program is set up – thee struggle is real! Let just say a lot has happened since my last blog post including my […]

THE GAME OF LIFE

THE GAME OF LIFE If I could put life into words I would compare it to a game of UNO. Now, I know that may seem I bit unusual but this is a technique I often use to engage my clients. One time in particular when I was helping my client through a crisis I […]